Study It Out

We've been grappling with some pretty major decisions over the past few months. I've been thinking a LOT about this scripture: 

But, behold, I say unto you, that you must study it out in your mind; then you must ask me if it be right, and if it is right I will cause that your bosom shall burn within you; therefore, you shall feel that it is right. 

But if it be not right you shall have no such feelings, but you shall have a stupor of thought that shall cause you to forget the thing which is wrong; therefore, you cannot write that which is sacred save it be given you from me. 

Doctrine and Covenants 8:8-9